I will change.

When it comes to relationships with other people, don’t focus on what their motives or intentions are. Don’t focus on their speeches.

Focus on their actions instead. Actions are tangible while thoughts and speeches are not.

Because you will never, ever truly know what people’s minds are thinking….you will just end up hurting yourself & others by speculating & guessing. Why? Because uncertainty breeds contempt and resentment. That is not fair to anyone.

If you disliked someone’s action, tell that somebody immediately so that he or she can decide what to do. Only then you handle it from there.

Don’t keep the dislike or discomfort inside you because it will fill your head with doubt and ultimately consume you and everything else that is good.

Lastly, learn to let go. Because the past should never overpower your future.

Had an enlightening conversation with my husband. He basically taught me the wisdom above.

I have finally come to the realisation that I overanalyse one’s action so much so that it becomes bigger and more severe than it really is.

I am too preoccupied with the “motive” or intention behind an action that I simply forget that shit just happens.  Simply put, I am a fucked-up, straight-up batshit crazy conspiracy theorist. I get too carried away.

Today I will start to change that.

Happiness.

Went to visit KL showroom this afternoon and had lunch at Kin Kin. Glad I went cause I tried the one in Pandan Indah and it was quite underwhelming. Thought it’s completely overrated. Kin Kin in KL on the other hand is a different class altogether. The noodle was springy and the egg perfectly poached. Thanks Paul Teh for recommending!

#1 – Kin Kin in Kuala Lumpur, Off Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman. Spot the Paul Teh?
Kin Kin

Place was packed. And service was incredibly slow. I think we waited for like 45 minutes before our food arrived -_-

#2 – Packed.
Packed

When the pan mee arrived, it was all worth it.

#3 – Kin Kin dry pan mee.
Kin Kin Dry Pan Mee.

#4 – Yeah, one branch is good for now. Cause they’re not very good at QC.
One branch.

After lunch and some work, we left for PJ office. At the turnoff from the Hartamas highway to Section 17, I got stopped by traffic police for speeding :P

He asked why I was speeding. I told him I didn’t realise I was. Then he asked for my driving license, then proceeded to ask if I wanted “help”. I said no, give me the summon. He asked me if I were sure. I said, yeah give me the summon I did something wrong.

And guess what…dude told me it’s okay, he’s letting me off because of my “smile”.

“Takpe lah..boleh pergi. Kerana you punya senyum”. wtf -_-”

My good day continued all the way to the office. My mineral makeup stash has arrived all the way from US of A. I was so excited when I saw the security uncle carried a brown envelope into my room. Almost did a dance when he passed the envelope to me (not trying to be drama but you know how much burden is lifted knowing your online shopping has arrived safely in your hands). Aside from the stuff I ordered, Silk Naturals has even given me 1 perfecting powder and 3 eye colours for free! I love shopping with Silk Naturals, so many surprises :)

#1 – Bubble envelope.
Bubble envelope

#2 – Meticulously wrapped.
Meticulously wrapped.

#3 – Unwrapped!
Unwrapped!

#4 – Free gifts :D :D :D
Free gifts.

Yeah and I just danced along to Dancer by The Killers with the babber before clicking ‘Publish’. Happiness is derived from the simplest of things. Hope my good fortune continues.