A question for men.
When your wife or gf is under emotional stress stemming from the monthlies and all other factors, do you avoid them at all cost or do you try to comfort them as much as you can?
I haven’t eaten like that in a long time.
Ever wonder how it feels like to smash your own head against the wall and feel the brain matter oozing out, blood running down your face. I feel like that sometimes. Really frustrated with living and just die. Leave all this nonsense and die. I am going to die anyway why bother.
That’s a LOT of food…but to heck with it – we’re not women for nothing right? *hugz*…it’ll look better in the morning…sleep on it! :)
I can think of things that may be bothering you – boyfriend or work. Either one, it is frustrating some times. Just let it go…but it is easier than done…at least for myself.
Don’t think too much ok. It’s normal to be emotional. Get a nice sleep and you’ll wake up feeling better.
go buy a really old car fr the junkyard and whenever u feel really pissed or wants some destruction, take ur baseball bat, beat the hell outta that shit and turn that car into scrap. do it every month. you’ll feel good afterwards, trust me.
It’s a no win situation for the guys. If we try to be kind, they’ll tell us to bugger off. They’re emo-ing no time for silly us. If we leave them to their own misery, we’ll be labeled as uncaring. I always pretend ignorance even though it’s very clear that she’s suffering from monthlies. Ladies must be clear about one thing, your boyfriend or husband is not the one giving you the monthlies, it is GOD not us. So give us a break ok.
She gets nice body massage from me.
Reflexology.
Back rub, and back pelvis massage.
And if she’s in the mood, I’ll oil and rub her nipples like bryan brown gave mimi rogers in ‘Full Body Massage’
That oxytocins release trick works wonders.
ok i mean how would i know if my gf (no im single) had their ‘auntie visit’ unless she tell me? hey i wudn’t (and no idea) how to count the dates on my calender? anyway if thats the case i wun leave her alone, just will ask her whats her prob n if she feels like not talking….deng deng deng….silence treatment will do (i think so?) At least i tried to figure out what happen rite?
hehehe, rubbish eats rubbish.
bee: thanks babe. *hugs*
sk: easier said than done, unfortunately :(
twosuperheroes: thanks..will try.
tides of tear: if i were to buy an old junk for a car, i’m afraid i might use it for random road bullying purposes haha
ronin: a tip, when we tell you to bugger off, it really means stay and hug me and just don’t speak.
shadowfox: great up till the nipples part. they’re fucking sore during the monthlies ok!
andrew cha: silent treatment is the next step to disaster, dude. eh are you my classmate from sekolah rendah? same name.
lola: so kind of you. thx!
‘When your wife or gf is under emotional stress stemming from the monthlies and all other factors, do you avoid them at all cost or do you try to comfort them as much as you can?’
Waaah! Just rub it in that I have no wife or GF! Waaaah! ;-(
Actually, when I was married, both was true depending on HER. And let’s face it, she never knew whethe she wanted me near or far away herself, so she’d scream for me to GO and LEAVE HER ALONE and later scream at me for not being there. Let’s face it, as a man you can’t win. :-)
‘Ever wonder how it feels like to smash your own head against the wall and feel the brain matter oozing out, blood running down your face.’
Sort of. I did it with a tree which had a rusty nail in it. Got four stitches in my head for my trouble. But don’t worry, it hasn’t effected me at all Suanie … I mean FA … I mean KY … oh darn! What year is it again? Woo hoo hoo, lets go watch that dog chase that cat!!!! :-)
glad u still remember me! never know ur a full time blogger. been your regular reader since i had my internet subscription this year. never know u guys (local blogger)had such a big community. what a wonderful world (internet) where u can earn side income. mind to teach me some kungfu a ‘si mou'(hehehe…)?
dabido: lol you always crack me up man!!!
andrew: of course i remember you!! heh i’m not a full time blogger, but i wish i was! well, you could only do this blogging thing when your concern is not money ;)
my bf tries to avoid me or bears with my meaness when i bleed . LOL. the very first few times were very chaotic … it’s either fight or flight … LOL … but we talked about it. now adays i try to warn him when i’m emo-ing really bad and he also got used to my cycle, so it’s alot better now. :D ur in communications, so communicate lah. :p
pinky: haha if only communication in relationship is as easy as work!
Ha…I knew my comments will be deleted…
that the reason why I created my own forum
I knew it!!!
datuk goh: why are you taunting me for?